0103 – Perfect Match

GUEST: Nicci Sprouse, matchmaker


How to find your perfect match

Teaser Bullets

by the end of this episode you’ll learn:

  • if there’s such a thing in the first place as a “perfect” match
  • things to think about before the first date
  • the #1 tip to finding your perfect match

Describe the problem

Dating can be tough, especially when you think you know what you want, but just can’t seem to find it. Today we get lessons from a seasoned matchmaker on how to find the match that’s right for you, and how to foster that relationship when you think you’ve found it.

Segment #1

    • Take action and be social. By taking a physical action towards your goal of meeting someone you will greatly increase your chances and build your confidence. Join groups, attend events/classes, volunteer, do online dating, speed dating, etc.  

Segment #2


    • Filter! Know your deal-breakers and don’t compromise or settle. Now, don’t be superficial, but be fully aware of what you want so you can quickly assess who is a time-waster and who is potentially worthy.


Final Thoughts:

Number One Tip: Understand what a perfect ‘match’ means to you. Personality, compatibility, mutual-interests, and chemistry – everyone is unique and attracted to something different in a partner. Understand what it is that makes you swoon. But be self-aware of what is NOT your match so you break those old patterns.


  • Elijah’s Thoughts
  • Sarah’s Thoughts


In Closing

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Until we meet again, keep striving to make every relationship you have the best it can possibly be, including the one with yourself. We’ll talk soon.

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